About me

I was a victim. They told me that I had survived.  Now I am a survivor of rape and I want to tell my own story.  I want others to know that you don’t have to be afraid and you can tell your story too.  I want to help others now.  This is my story, but my story doesn’t define me:

I was physically, sexually, and emotionally abused from October 2012 till November 2013. I finally reported.  I got help and am still healing.  I was abused by someone that I loved – my ex boyfriend.  It’s called domestic violence.  Love shouldn’t hurt.

6 thoughts on “About me

  1. Hello my friend,
    You are right love should not hurt. Sometimes abuse starts so slowly you don’t see it creeping. I’m so glad your maid came in. She made a good witness if you needed one. Sometimes the emotional abuse continues after splitting up. Stay strong. If he is continue to harass you call in ever time it makes sense and keep a log of occurrences. I pray you’re on the road to healing and building a new life. I offer my hand to you if you ever want to talk. 🙂

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  2. He’s far away thankfully. I have a restraining order already. And she’s a housekeeper, not a maid. She’s very sweet and has helped me. I’ve known her for many years. My dog sitter was also there one time and she said she felt that something was wrong and ran out as soon as possible. Not many people knew. No one knew how bad he was, but some people knew he used to yell at me often. I started this blog because I’m safe now. I have help and support which I am very thankful for. If you ever want to talk I’m here too. Thanks.

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  3. You can heal, let that go, let him own his own actions and then find happiness beyond healing.

    Life is a journey, without judgment, this next moment is the same for all of us.

    We all do not know what tomorrow holds, nothing is secure of for sure, just this next breath and our action.

    Good luck


  4. Thanks for sharing your story, it is much needed! Women should know that this is not what they deserve even if that´s what they might believe sometimes. I went through a similar experience, I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years. That was 7 years ago, and it does get better, but I am not sure if I´ll ever heal completely. Stay strong! And you´re not alone 🙂


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